The turning of the new year is, traditionally, a time of new beginnings. From fitness and weight loss, to more work related goals, how many times have you made a New Years resolution? What will be your resolution this year? Might I sugesst, resolve to change your life, your sex life at least.

Your sexual life is important to your physical and emotional well being. Resolving to expand or revitalize your sex life can be the greatest benefit to a fantastic 2020.

What do you want to explore about yourself this year? How, or with whom, could you open up to more daring or varied sexual experiences in the coming new year? Is there an aspect of your sexuality you wish you could explore deeper? Asking yourself these questions could open up possibilities for you and your partner or partners. Find a starting point of something that has piqued your interest in the past, but you have never had the opportunity or the courage to explore fully.

Perhaps you and your partner have fantasies you have never put into your sexual experience. Open up to each other. Let your deepest sexual fantasies out. Even if you or your partner do not go on to fully experience that fantasy, opening up about your thoughts and feelings on the subject can improve your relationship. Freely expressing your sexual secrets can get you and your partner thinking of a new and exciting direction to take sexually. Sharing your fantasies, and listening with an open mind to those of your partner, can and will make both of you feel heard and understood. If you do pursue some form of those fantasies, the experience will bring you closer and free you both to being more open and honest in your sexual play.

You or your partner might have a kink you have wanted to learn more about and bring into the bedroom. Utilize that "incognito mode" on your favorite web browser and dive in. Light bondage, spanking, role playing, lingerie or other sexual clothing, and foot fetishization are all widely popular starting points for the more "beginner" side of kinky sex and sexuality. If you already are into more fetish inclined sex, explore new kink, or take the ones you are familiar with a step or two further. Explore your city or greater area for kink or BDSM clubs. These can be a great resource for kinks you have an interest in, or finding new ones. Talking to people more experienced in "the lifestyle" is invaluable.

This could be the year you begin to explore sexual toys. Start small with a vibrator, cock ring, or warming lubricant. Check out your nearest Badd Kitty to explore your options. Introducing sex toys into your solo or partner sexual play can open up a whole world of new feelings and experiences.

This New Year, focus your improvement on sex and relationships. We hope it makes for a fantastic and sexy 2020!