We all like to get a little dolled up now and then. It's good for self esteem. This is a good way to set the stage in the bedroom as well. We at your favorite adult store, Badd Kitty, know the importance of wearing just the right thing to set the mood. So get on your shopping shoes and read on.

Intimate apparel is usually associated with women, but all sexes can be represented. There are plenty of options out there for men and women to look and feel sexy in lingerie. If you are intimidated about what to try, shop the Badd Kitty selection of intimate apparel online to see what styles of lingerie appeal to you and your partner. Get a first item or two and model them for yourself first to get comfortable with your choices. Men especially might need some adjustment to wearing intimate apparel since society usually equates it with women. Then when you are comfortable, share your new wardrobe selections with your partner.

Most people begin their sexual arousal visually. Looking at your partner is the first step to intimacy. Usually with our partners, looking leads to touching, after all. So both of you looking and feeling your best is a great way to begin building desire. Lingerie can be a great way to be attractive to not only your partner, but also to yourself. That being said, lingerie is not just for looking good, but for feeling good. Having a sexy little outfit on under your work clothes can build anticipation of showing what's underneath to your partner later at home. The act of revealing, then removing intimate apparel can be a sensual part of foreplay for you and your partner. Think of the lingerie as the wrapper and yourself as the gift. Even if you do not have a partner, it can help you feel special and sexy to have on a cute set of bra and panties or a silky thong. Lingerie is as much for your enjoyment as for a partner's enjoyment.

Giving yourself the gift of lingerie is a great self confidence boost. While it is fun to get lingerie items from a partner, you know best what you look and feel good in. You are your own best personal shopper when it comes to intimate apparel. An even better idea is to shop together with your partner for intimate items for the both of you to try, then stage a fashion show of your choices once the items are home and you are alone together. Talking together about what looks and feels good while you shop the different style options can be very arousing. Do not force your choices on your partner, make it a couple decision.

The gift of lingerie, whether to yourself or to your partner, is one that pays back many returns. Looking and feeling your best can help with feeling sexy and desired. So get shopping at Badd Kitty today and spice up your intimate wardrobe.