Sounding
Tori Douglas on Feb 15th 2025
Many of you may not be familiar with the practice of sounding. This is the act of insertion of an object into the urethra for sexual pleasure. Sounding is usually associated with those with a penis, but those with a vagina can use sounding techniques as well.
Sounding rods or plugs can be used to stimulate the nerve endings within the urethra for sexual pleasure. They are carefully inserted into the urethra to stimulate these nerves. This is also the most direct way to reach the pleasure centers in the prostate.
Plugs and rods are slightly different. Plugs are shorter, between one to four inches. They can increase sensitivity and prolong erection. Rods are longer and come in many sizes and materials from flexible silicone to rigid metals. They should not be used for prolonged periods of time, however. There can be damage and loss of sensitivity in the urethra.
You should use lots of lube and time when inserting a plug or sound. Smaller might seem better for beginners, but too slim a sound could injure the walls of the urethra. Take care in selecting the right size to start your sounding journey. You should start with a flexible sound to try to avoid injury to the urethra.
There are risks, however, as with any sexual practice. If not done safely and in a sanitary fashion, issues can occur. Number one among these issues is infection. Always use sterile instruments for insertion, and sterile lube, and use only those instruments made for sounding. Sterilize your toys with boiling water for at least 10 minutes and wash your hands and genital area before play. Sounding toys are made of silicone, metal or plastic. Each kind has its own pros and cons. Metal is heavy enough to slide on its own, but silicone is flexible and textured.
Household objects such as pencils, wires, or screws could lead to injury of the urethra such as small cuts or scrapes and invite bacteria which can lead to urethra or urinary tract infections. These objects can also become lodged in the urethra and cause damage to the penis or urethra as well as needing to be removed by medical professionals. This is another reason specific sounding instruments should be used. Those with a cross piece or ring at the end are ideal to keep from getting lodged in the urethra.
Your urethra will not be stretched out if you practice sounding occasionally. If you practice sounding more often you might stretch the urethra and need thicker toys for the same sensation. You may have a stinging sensation when you urinate but this should stop over time.
Stop and remove the sound if you notice pain, a cold sensation, swelling, redness, bleeding or discharge.
After you are done, remove the sound slowly and carefully. Wash the sound, your hands and your genitals and remember to urinate after to flush out bacteria.
Sounding can be intimidating but if done right can feel amazing. So take the time to safely give it a try. Relax and let yourself find out if sounding is right for your sexual practice.