Dildos & Strap-Ons
Dildos and strap-ons in every style: realistic silicone, vibrating, suction-cup, glass and steel, plus harnesses and pegging kits from Sportsheets, Tantus and b-Vibe.
How to choose a dildo
Start with size and firmness, then shape, then extras. For a first dildo pick 5 to 6 inches insertable in soft-core silicone; experienced users may prefer the girthy b-Vibe Slipskin or a rigid glass piece for pressure. Realistic styles from Shaft and Jock suit people who want the look and feel of a penis; sculpted non-realistic shapes from Tantus target the G-spot or prostate more precisely. A suction cup frees your hands, a motor adds vibration, and a flared base lets you wear it in a harness or use it anally. Everything here costs $24.95 to $232.95. Read our beginners guide for lube and warm-up advice.
Dildo and strap-on styles
| Type | Best for | Price range |
|---|---|---|
| Realistic dildo | Lifelike shape, veins and balls | $37.95–$172.95 |
| Non-realistic dildo | Smooth or sculpted, firm curves | $72.95–$116.95 |
| Vibrating dildo | Dildo shape with a motor | $69.95–$199.95 |
| Suction-cup dildo | Hands-free on a flat surface | $49.95–$137.95 |
| Glass or steel dildo | Rigid, temperature play, lifetime material | $39.95–$159.95 |
| Harness | Wear any dildo for strap-on sex | $24.95–$232.95 |
| Strap-on kit | Harness and dildo together | $129.95–$155.95 |
Brands in this collection
Sportsheets for harnesses that fit every body, Tantus for American-made silicone, Shaft and Jock for dual-density realistic dildos, b-Vibe for the Slipskin range, and CalExotics for vibrating and thrusting dildos. Go deeper into realistic dildos, vibrating dildos, suction cup dildos or strap-ons and harnesses.
Shop dildos online or in store
Every order ships nationwide in a plain brown box; standard shipping is free over $75. Prefer to see it first? Visit one of our seven Badd Kitty boutiques in South Carolina and Michigan for a private, judgment-free consultation. Find a boutique.
Updated October 2026
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Frequently asked questions
What size dildo should a beginner choose?
Around 5 to 6 inches insertable and 1.25 to 1.5 inches wide, which is close to average and comfortable for most bodies. Go slimmer for anal use and always choose a flared base if it might be used anally.
Which dildo material is best?
Platinum silicone is the safest all-rounder: non-porous, soft with a firm core, and dishwasher-safe. Glass and stainless steel are rigid, heavier and good for temperature play. Avoid jelly and unlabeled rubber.
Can any dildo be used with a strap-on harness?
Any dildo with a flared base fits a standard O-ring harness. Check the ring size: most harnesses include 1.5 to 2 inch rings, and larger bases need a bigger ring.
How do I clean a dildo?
Wash silicone, glass and steel with warm water and mild soap or toy cleaner after every use; silicone can also be boiled for three minutes. Dry fully and store away from other silicone toys.
Do you sell dildos in store?
Yes. All seven Badd Kitty boutiques carry dildos and harnesses, and staff can help compare sizes and firmness in person without any awkwardness.
About Dildos & Strap-Ons
Dildos and strap-ons in every style: realistic silicone, vibrating, suction-cup, glass and steel, plus harnesses and pegging kits from Sportsheets, Tantus and b-Vibe.