Couples Toys
Adult toys for couples: vibrating rings, We-Vibe couples vibrators, remote and app toys for long distance, and finger vibes, so both partners feel something.
Adult toys for couples are toys made for two: worn during sex, passed between partners, or controlled by one partner from across the room or across the country. This collection covers vibrating rings, C-shaped couples vibrators, remote and app toys, and finger vibes.
Updated October 2026
Which adult toys for couples should you start with?
Start with the sex you already have and add one thing to it. Pick by what you want to change:
- Clitoral vibration during penetrative sex: a vibrating cock ring. It sits at the base of the penis and buzzes against the clitoris in face-to-face positions. Battery rings start at $29.95.
- Hands-free vibration for the partner with a vulva: a C-shaped couples vibrator such as the We-Vibe Sync. One arm sits inside against the G-spot, the other rests on the clitoris, and there is room for a penis or dildo alongside it.
- One partner likes being in control: a remote or app toy, so the other person holds the buttons.
- You live apart or travel a lot: an app-controlled toy. The wearer pairs it to their phone, and the remote partner controls it through the maker's app over the internet.
- More foreplay: a finger vibe, which adds vibration to your fingertips and keeps your hands free.
- Something for the partner with a penis too: rings with a second loop or a perineum arm, such as the Vedo Thunder Bunny or We-Vibe Verge 2.
Our guide how to choose your first couples toy together goes deeper on this choice.
Couples toys compared
| Type | Suits | Power | Price |
|---|---|---|---|
| Battery vibrating ring | Trying the idea cheaply | Replaceable batteries | $29.95–$30.95 |
| Rechargeable ring | Couples who like rings | USB | $49.95–$99.95 |
| App ring | Shared control, patterns | USB, app | $86.95–$154.95 |
| C-shaped vibe | Vulva owners during sex | USB, app or remote | $129.95–$229.95 |
| Remote toy | Control in the same room | Wireless remote | $99.95–$104.95 |
| Finger or hand vibe | Foreplay, manual play | USB | $49.95–$114.95 |
Browse the full ranges in cock rings, remote and app toys and the We-Vibe collection.
Remote and app toys for long-distance couples
A remote toy comes with a small handheld controller that works within a short range. The Evolved Cherry Pose remote works up to 30 feet: perfect for the same room or a night out, not for another city.
An app toy pairs to the wearer's phone over Bluetooth, and the remote partner controls it through the brand's app over the internet. We-Vibe toys use the We-Vibe app, and the We-Vibe Chorus lets you share control from anywhere. CalExotics Connect toys also run on an app.
Before you are apart, do a test session in the same room: charge the toy and both phones, install the app on both, and agree on a word for "stop". Wearables you can use under clothes are in wearable vibes, and our remote control and long-distance toys guide compares them.
Staff picks with real specs
Screaming O 4B OWow – $30.95
The cheapest way to find out if you like a ring: a clear stretchy ring with a bass-style 4B bullet, 5 speeds plus 1 pulse, waterproof, 30+ minutes per set of batteries.
Vedo Thunder Bunny Ring – $71.95
Two silicone loops, one for the shaft and one for the testicles. The bunny arm buzzes on the clitoris or the perineum depending on which way you wear it. 10 functions, waterproof, about 45 minutes per charge.
CalExotics Connect Couples Ring – $86.95
Use the button or the app. 9 functions, silicone, IPX7 waterproof. It charges in 2 hours and runs 40 minutes on high or 60 minutes on a lower setting.
We-Vibe Sync – $179.95
The adjustable C-shaped couples vibrator you wear during sex for G-spot and clitoral vibration. 10 intensity levels, IPX7, silicone-coated, with app control even over distance. The lighter Sync Go ($129.95) comes with a travel case.
We-Vibe Chorus – $225.95
Like the Sync, plus a Squeeze Remote: the harder you squeeze, the stronger the vibration. It also has touch-sensitive vibration and app control you can share from anywhere.
Evolved Cherry Pose – $104.95
A bendable double-ended silicone vibe with two motors and 10 settings, 5 inches insertable and 1.25 inches across. Waterproof, with a 30-foot remote so one partner holds the controls.
How to bring up a toy with your partner
- Pick a calm moment, not mid-sex and not right after an argument.
- Frame it as adding, not fixing. "I'd love to try something new with you" lands better than "something's missing".
- Browse together, on this page or in a boutique.
- Start small and external. A ring or a finger vibe feels less intimidating than an insertable toy.
- Agree on a stop word and check in during and after the first try.
If you'd rather start with a game, sex games for couples and massage oils are low-pressure first steps. For positions that make room for a toy, see best sex positions and the toys that help.
Lube, cleaning and safety
- Lube: water-based lube is safe with every toy and every condom. Silicone lube lasts longer but can leave some silicone toys gummy, so check the toy maker's guidance or patch-test a drop on the base first. Shop water-based lube or read how to use lube.
- Rings: wear a cock ring for no more than 30 minutes at a time, and take it off straight away if you notice numbness, coldness, pain, swelling or discoloration (Healthline). Take it off before you fall asleep. Our cock ring guide covers sizing and safety.
- Anal play: only use toys made for it, with a flared base or handle, so nothing can slip inside.
- Cleaning: wash every toy after use with a toy cleaner or mild soap and warm water, following the maker's instructions. Wash a toy, or put a fresh condom on it, before it moves between partners or body openings. Our guide to cleaning sex toys covers every material.
Shop couples toys online or in store
Every order ships in a plain brown box, and your card statement shows "BADD KITTY". Standard shipping (5–7 business days) is free over $75; express and overnight are available at checkout, and local pickup appears there when one boutique holds your whole order. Prefer to see the toys first? Our seven Badd Kitty boutiques in South Carolina and Michigan offer private, judgment-free consultations, and shopping as a couple is welcome. Find a boutique, or see our couples games, massage and date-night ideas.
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Frequently asked questions
What are the best adult toys for couples?
For most couples, a vibrating cock ring is the easiest first toy because it adds clitoral vibration to sex you already have; ours start at $29.95. Next steps are a C-shaped couples vibrator like the We-Vibe Sync ($179.95), worn during sex, or a remote toy so one partner holds the controls.
How do you introduce a sex toy to your partner?
Bring it up at a calm moment outside the bedroom, frame it as something to add rather than something to fix, and browse together. Start with a small external toy such as a ring or finger vibe, and agree on a word for stop.
What sex toys work for long-distance couples?
App-controlled toys. The partner wearing the toy pairs it to their phone over Bluetooth, and the other partner controls it through the brand's app over the internet. We-Vibe Sync, Chorus and Moxie+ and CalExotics Connect toys work this way; a plain remote toy only works within a short range, such as 30 feet.
What is the difference between a remote control and an app-controlled toy?
A remote toy comes with a handheld controller that works in the same room or nearby. An app toy is controlled from a phone and can be operated from anywhere with an internet connection, and often adds custom patterns.
Are couples toys only for straight couples?
No. Rings and C-shaped vibes suit penis-and-vulva sex, but remote plugs, double-ended toys, finger vibes, strap-ons and app vibes work for any pairing. Choose by what each partner enjoys, not by gender.
How long can you wear a vibrating cock ring?
No more than 30 minutes at a time. Take it off straight away if you notice numbness, coldness, pain, swelling or discoloration, and take it off before you fall asleep.
What lube should we use with couples toys?
Water-based lube is safe with every toy and condom. Silicone lube lasts longer but can leave some silicone toys gummy, so check the toy maker's guidance or patch-test a drop on the base first.
Can we shop for couples toys together in store?
Yes. Our seven Badd Kitty boutiques in South Carolina and Michigan offer private, judgment-free consultations, and couples are welcome. Online orders ship in a plain brown box.
About Couples Toys
Adult toys for couples: vibrating rings, We-Vibe couples vibrators, remote and app toys for long distance, and finger vibes, so both partners feel something.