LEARN WITH BADD KITTY

Guides & Tips

Clear, respectful resources for choosing products, building confidence, and caring for your intimate wellness.

Flat lay of an ivory lace bra and panty on a plum velvet robe with satin ribbons, roses and candles

Featured guide · October 10, 2026

What Is Lingerie? Meaning, Origin & Every Type Explained

Lingerie is women's underwear and nightwear made to be seen as well as worn: bra and panty sets, teddies, bodysuits, babydolls, chemises, corsets and robes. The word is French and comes from linge, "linen", because th...

Read the guide
Two champagne glasses and rose petals on plum velvet Guide · October 8, 2026

Sex Toys for Couples: How to Choose Your First One Together

Sex toys for couples are easiest to choose when you start with the conversation, not the catalogue: what do you both want more of, and how hands-on...

Rumpled white sheets in morning light Guide · October 8, 2026

Best Sex Positions (and the Toys That Make Them Better)

The best sex positions are the ones that fit your bodies, your energy and what you want from the moment: closeness, clitoral stimulation, depth or ...

Black lace garter belt, stockings and satin chemise flat lay Guide · October 8, 2026

Teddy vs Chemise vs Babydoll vs Garter Belt: Lingerie Terms Explained

What is a teddy, a chemise, a babydoll or a garter belt? A teddy is a one-piece lingerie bodysuit, a chemise is a slip-style nightdress, a babydoll...

Leather cuffs, silk rope and blindfold on plum velvet Guide · October 8, 2026

How to Be a Dom: Consent, Communication and First Scenes

Learning how to be a dom starts with consent and communication, not equipment: you negotiate limits, agree a safeword, plan a short first scene and...

Sparkling gemstones on black velvet Guide · October 8, 2026

Best Butt Plugs for Beginners to Advanced

The best butt plugs for beginners are small, tapered and silicone with a wide flared base; advanced users move up to weighted, vibrating and remote...

Water droplets on glass over blush satin Guide · October 8, 2026

How to Use Lube: Amounts, Types and Toy Compatibility

How to use lube comes down to three things: pick the right type for the activity, apply more than you think you need, and reapply before anything s...

Navy satin bedding with warm lamp light Guide · October 8, 2026

Best Male Masturbators & Strokers We Carry

The best male masturbators balance a soft, textured sleeve with easy cleaning, and the right one depends on whether you want a simple stroker or a ...

Massage oil and a rolled towel on plum satin Guide · October 8, 2026

Best Prostate Massagers (Staff Picks by Experience Level)

The best prostate massagers for most people are slim, hands-free silicone toys with a flared base, and the right pick depends on your experience le...

Glass cloche with a candle on charcoal satin Guide · October 8, 2026

How to Use a Penis Pump Safely

How to use a penis pump safely: lube the rim, pump slowly until it feels full but not painful, hold for a few minutes, release, and keep sessions s...

Blush satin sheets, rose petals and a candle Guide · October 8, 2026

How to Use a Vibrator (Solo and With a Partner)

How to use a vibrator comes down to four things: start on the lowest setting, start on the outside, add lube, and keep the rhythm steady once somet...

Clear gel droplets and a glass bottle on blush satin Guide · October 8, 2026

Best Lube for Sex: How to Pick the Right One

The best lube for sex depends on three questions: are you using condoms, are you using silicone toys, and how long do you need it to last? Answer t...