LONG-DISTANCE PLAY
Remote Control & Long-Distance Sex Toys
Remote and app-controlled vibrators, panty vibes and wearables for play across the room or the country.
A remote control vibrator lets a partner run the show from across the room; an app controlled vibrator does it from across the country. This Badd Kitty guide covers vibrating panties, wearable vibes and app toys from We-Vibe, Svakom, Lovense and Femme Funn, from $42 to $230.
Updated October 2026
Remote control vibrator vs app controlled vibrator
A remote control vibrator comes with a physical remote and works over a short Bluetooth or radio range — the same room, a restaurant table, a car. It needs no phone and nothing to pair. An app controlled vibrator connects to a phone app; over Bluetooth it works nearby, and over the internet a partner anywhere can control patterns in real time, which is what makes it a long-distance sex toy. Many toys do both: the We-Vibe Chorus ($225.95) ships with a squeeze remote and the We-Connect app, and Svakom toys pair with the Svakom app.
Vibrating panties and wearable vibes
Vibrating panties are the most-searched remote toy for a reason: they are discreet, hands-free and built for being out together. Modern versions are a small curved vibe that sits in your own underwear, held by a magnetic clip or the fit of the panty. Our wearable vibes collection includes the Vedo Niki panty vibe ($79.95), Femme Funn Unda ($84.95), Nu Sensuelle Pleasure Panty ($99.95), Gender X Our Undie Vibe ($101.95), Svakom Edeny ($119.95) and the We-Vibe Moxie+ ($151.95), which adds app control.
Long-distance sex toys compared
| Toy | Control | Best for | Price |
|---|---|---|---|
| Vedo Niki panty vibe | Remote | Date nights out, no phone needed | $79.95 |
| Femme Funn Unda | Remote | Wearable with a strong, quiet motor | $84.95 |
| Envy Trembler remote vibe ring | Remote | Couples who want a ring a partner controls | $89.95 |
| Svakom Cici+ 2 warming G-spot vibe | App | Internal play with warming and app patterns | $104.95 |
| Lovense Exomoon | App | Long-distance couples on the Lovense app | $129.95 |
| We-Vibe Moxie+ | Remote + app | Panty vibe you can also control from anywhere | $151.95 |
| We-Vibe Nova 2 | App | Rabbit vibe with a flexible clitoral arm | $154.95 |
| We-Vibe Chorus | Squeeze remote + app | Worn during sex; long-distance couples | $225.95 |
Brands we stock: We-Vibe, Svakom, Lovense, Femme Funn
We-Vibe makes the Sync, Chorus, Melt 2, Nova 2 and Moxie+, all on the We-Connect app. Svakom covers more ground at lower prices — Avery, Trysta Neo, Hannes Neo, Edeny and the Cici+ 2 — on the Svakom app. Lovense is the name long-distance couples ask for by brand. Femme Funn, Vedo, Evolved, Envy, B-Vibe and Gender X round out the remote and app-controlled toys collection.
Tips for long-distance play
- Pair the toy at home on good Wi-Fi before the first remote session, and keep both apps updated.
- Charge fully; most app toys run 1–2 hours per charge.
- Agree how it ends: the wearer should always be able to switch the toy off from their side.
- For public wear, test the noise level at home first — wearable vibes are quieter inside clothing but not silent.
- Use water-based lube on silicone toys and wash with toy cleaner after each session.
Shop remote control vibrators online or in store
Every order ships in a plain brown box with no logos, the card statement reads "BADD KITTY", and standard shipping is free on orders over $75 ($5.99 under $75). Express (2–3 business days) and overnight options are available at checkout. Prefer to see it first? Badd Kitty has nine boutiques across South Carolina and Michigan with staff who answer every question without judgment — find a boutique.
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VEDO NIKI PANTY VIBE
3 options
Femme Funn Unda
2 options
Envy Trembler Remote Vibe Ring
Sold out
Svakom Cici Plus 2 Gspot Warm Vibe
Available
Lovense Exomoon Vibe
Available
We Vibe Moxie Plus
2 options
WE VIBE NOVA 2
2 options
WE VIBE CHORUS
5 options
Frequently asked questions
What is the difference between a remote control vibrator and an app controlled vibrator?
A remote control vibrator uses a physical remote over a short range in the same room. An app controlled vibrator pairs with a phone app and, over the internet, can be controlled by a partner anywhere in the world. Many toys, such as the We-Vibe Chorus, include both.
How far does a remote control vibrator work?
Physical remotes typically work within the same room or a few metres with a clear line of sight. App-controlled toys work at any distance over the internet as long as the wearer's phone stays within Bluetooth range of the toy.
What is the We-Vibe Chorus?
The We-Vibe Chorus is a C-shaped couples vibrator worn during sex, with one arm inside and one on the clitoris. It comes with a squeeze remote and connects to the We-Connect app for long-distance control. We stock it at $225.95.
What is a good gift for a boyfriend or girlfriend in a long-distance relationship?
An app-controlled toy you each have a role in: the We-Vibe Chorus or Moxie+ for her, a Lovense or Svakom app toy, or a pair of matching toys you control for each other. Everything ships in plain packaging.
Are vibrating panties quiet?
Quieter than a handheld vibrator because clothing muffles them, but not silent. Test the lower speeds at home first; most wearers find them unnoticeable in a restaurant or bar with background noise.