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Men's Sex Toys: Prostate Massagers, Strokers & More
Prostate massagers, strokers, cock rings and pumps, with honest picks for every budget.
Men's sex toys fall into five groups: prostate massagers, male masturbators (strokers), cock rings, penis pumps, and butt plugs for men. This Badd Kitty guide explains what each one does, who it suits and what to spend, with real picks from $7 to $360.
Updated October 2026
Prostate massager: what it is and how to choose one
A prostate massager is a curved anal toy angled to press on the prostate, a walnut-sized gland a few inches inside and toward the belly. Non-vibrating massagers like the Aneros Eupho Syn ($94.95) move with your own muscles; vibrating ones add motors and sometimes a "come-hither" tapping motion. Beginners do well with slim options — the Shots Levelz bulb massager ($17.95) or B-Vibe P Spot Slim ($34.95) — before moving to the Svakom Vick Neo 2 ($119.95), Playboy Come Hither ($129.95) or Le Wand XO ($175.95). Read our prostate milking guide for technique and best prostate massagers for a ranked list.
Male masturbator and strokers
A male masturbator is a textured sleeve you stroke with; "Fleshlight" is one brand of this type, and the open-ended, pocket-sized versions are usually called strokers. We stock Arcwave (the Ghost stroker, $29.95), Zolo, Blush M for Men, Doc Johnson Main Squeeze, Tenga (Flip Orb, $140.95), Pipedream PDX and Svakom. The things that separate them are texture, how tightly they squeeze, whether they vibrate or suck, and how easy they are to clean and dry. More in what is a Fleshlight: male strokers explained.
Cock rings
A cock ring sits at the base of the penis (or around penis and testicles) to hold blood in, which most men say feels firmer and more sensitive. Stretchy silicone rings from Blush Stay Hard and CalExotics Alpha start at $6.95, and a three-pack lets you find your size. Vibrating rings — Screaming O, Vedo, Maia, We-Vibe Verge 2 ($154.95) — add sensation for a partner during sex. Never use a rigid ring without knowing your size, and take any ring off after 20–30 minutes.
Penis pumps
A penis pump creates suction around the penis for a temporary feeling of fullness and a different kind of sensation. Manual pumps with a bulb or trigger (Shots Pumped, $34.95; Pipedream Pumpworx, $45.95; Curve Jock, $69.95–$89.95) are the place to start. Automatic pumps (Me You Us, Maia Archer, Curve Jock Automatic) do the work for you, and Bathmate Hydromax pumps ($254.95–$357.95) use water in the shower. Keep sessions short, release pressure if anything feels wrong, and follow the included instructions — see how to use a penis pump.
Men's sex toys compared
| Toy type | Who it is for | Beginner pick | Step-up pick |
|---|---|---|---|
| Prostate massager | Men curious about P-spot pleasure | Shots Levelz bulb, $17.95 | Aneros Eupho Syn, $94.95 |
| Stroker / masturbator | Solo play with texture | Arcwave Ghost, $29.95 | Tenga Flip Orb, $140.95 |
| Cock ring | Firmer feel; shared vibration with a partner | Stay Hard beaded 3-pack, $7.95 | We-Vibe Verge 2, $154.95 |
| Penis pump | Suction sensation and a temporary fuller look | Pipedream Pumpworx, $45.95 | Bathmate Hydromax 7, $254.95 |
| Butt plug / trainer kit | Anal play and prostate pressure, hands-free | Curve Gossip Rump Bumpers, $24.95 | B-Vibe silicone training kit, $67.95 |
Butt plugs for men and delay products
Butt plugs for men are the same tapered, flared-base plugs anyone uses; the difference is that a plug with a slight forward curve adds prostate pressure. Start with an anal training kit and a thick anal lube. If you want to last longer, delay sprays and creams from Doc Johnson, System JO Prolonger and Wicked Overtime are formulated to reduce sensitivity; apply sparingly and test on a small area first.
Shop men's toys online or in store
Every order ships in a plain brown box with no logos, the card statement reads "BADD KITTY", and standard shipping is free on orders over $75 ($5.99 under $75). Express (2–3 business days) and overnight options are available at checkout. Prefer to see it first? Badd Kitty has nine boutiques across South Carolina and Michigan with staff who answer every question without judgment — find a boutique.
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STAY HARD BEADED 3PK RINGS
4 options
Levelz Bulb Prostate Massager
Available
ARCWAVE GHOST STROKER
3 options
PUMPWORX POWER PUMP
4 options
Aneros Eupho Syn
Available
Svakom Vick Neo 2
Sold out
TENGA FLIP ORB
2 options
WE VIBE VERGE 2
Available
Frequently asked questions
What is a prostate massager and what does it do?
A prostate massager is a curved anal toy shaped to press on the prostate gland from inside. Many men find the pressure produces a deeper, fuller kind of orgasm. Non-vibrating models like Aneros work with your own muscle movement; vibrating models add motors.
What is a Fleshlight?
Fleshlight is a brand name for a sleeve-style male masturbator hidden inside a flashlight-shaped case. The general category is strokers; at Badd Kitty we carry Tenga, Arcwave, Zolo, Doc Johnson Main Squeeze, Pipedream PDX and Svakom strokers.
How do you use a penis pump?
Apply a little water-based lube to the seal, place the cylinder over the penis, and pump slowly until you feel firm pressure, then hold for a few minutes before releasing the valve. Keep sessions short and stop if you feel pain or see discoloration.
What is the best prostate massager for a beginner?
Something slim with a flared base: the Shots Levelz bulb massager ($17.95) or B-Vibe P Spot Slim ($34.95). Use plenty of thick anal lube and go slowly; the Aneros Eupho Syn is the classic step up.
What does a vibrating cock ring do?
It keeps the penis firmer by holding blood in, and its small motor adds vibration that a partner feels during sex. Stretchy silicone rings fit most men; take any ring off after 20–30 minutes.