VALENTINE'S DAY
Valentine's Day Gifts for Him & Her (Spicy Edition)
Valentine's lingerie, couples toys, massage oils and games for a gift that gets used that night.
Valentine's Day gifts for him and her, spicy edition: Valentine's lingerie, couples toys, massage oils, sex games, cock rings and bra-and-panty sets. This Badd Kitty guide covers a Valentine's Day gift for a husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend that gets used that night, from $8 to $230.
Updated October 2026
Valentine's Day gift for her (wife or girlfriend)
A Valentine's Day gift for a wife or girlfriend should look like Valentine's: red, hearts, satin. The Oh La La Cherie Valentine Babydoll ($59.95, also in plus) is the obvious one; the Mapale Two Piece Zipper Heart set ($69.95) and Coquette Cherie Rose three-piece set ($89.95) are the dressier options. For a toy that photographs like a gift, the Luv Inc Heart Bullet ($34.95), Womanizer Rose ($94.95) and Romp Glow Rose ($84.95) all come in rose shapes, and the Crave Vesper necklace ($118.95) is a bullet vibrator she can wear to dinner.
Valentine's Day gift for him (husband or boyfriend)
The best Valentine's Day gift for a boyfriend or husband is one you both get something from. The We-Vibe Verge 2 ($154.95) is a vibrating ring worn during sex; Stay Hard and CalExotics Alpha rings start at $6.95 if you want to test the idea first. For him alone, the Arcwave Ghost stroker ($29.95) is an easy win and the Tenga Flip Orb ($140.95) is the upgrade. Our men's sex toys guide walks through every type.
Gifts for both of you: couples toys, games and oils
Couples toys are the Valentine's gift that does not sit in a drawer. The We-Vibe Sync ($179.95) and Chorus ($225.95) are worn during sex and controlled by remote or app; the Maia Love Box ($49.95) is the starter kit. Kheper Games Rose Petal Sexy Surprises ($14.95) and Intimacy ($21.95) give the evening a script. For the massage, Kama Sutra Oil of Love ($17.95) is a warming kissable oil, the Kama Sutra massage candle ($29.95) pours as warm oil, and Baci's pheromone massage candle is $25.95.
Valentine's gifts by budget
| Budget | For her | For him | For both |
|---|---|---|---|
| Under $25 | Neva Nude heart pasties, $17.95 | Stay Hard rings 3-pack, $7.95 | Rose Petal Sexy Surprises game, $14.95; Oil of Love, $17.95 |
| $25–$75 | Valentine Babydoll, $59.95; Zipper Heart set, $69.95 | Arcwave Ghost stroker, $29.95 | Maia Love Box, $49.95; Kama Sutra massage candle, $29.95 |
| $75–$150 | Womanizer Rose, $94.95; Crave Vesper necklace, $118.95 | Tenga Flip Orb, $140.95 | We-Vibe Pivot 2 couples ring, $149.95 |
| Splurge | Womanizer Next, $230.95 | We-Vibe Verge 2, $154.95 | We-Vibe Chorus, $225.95 |
Valentine's lingerie: what to buy and how to size it
Valentine's lingerie is any set in red, pink, black lace or satin, usually with hearts, bows or rose details. Babydolls and robes are the most forgiving fits (one-size or S/M and L/XL). Bra and panty sets and teddies need her usual bra and dress size. Brands we stock include Coquette, Oh La La Cherie, Mapale, Dreamgirl, Fantasy Lingerie and House of Desire, with plus sizes across most styles. Not sure what a teddy or chemise is? Read what is a teddy, chemise and garter belt.
Plan the night
- Open the gift early in the evening, not at midnight, so there is time to use it.
- Charge any toy the day before and keep water-based lube on the nightstand.
- Pick two or three ideas from best sex positions and let the game decide the order.
- Book dinner, then home — not the other way round.
Order in time for February 14
Every order ships in a plain brown box with no logos, the card statement reads "BADD KITTY", and standard shipping is free on orders over $75 ($5.99 under $75). Express (2–3 business days) and overnight options are available at checkout. Allow 5–7 business days for standard shipping, or choose express in the first week of February. Prefer to see it first? Badd Kitty has nine boutiques across South Carolina and Michigan with staff who answer every question without judgment — find a boutique.
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Rose Petal Sexy Surprises
Available
KAMA SUTRA OIL OF LOVE .75 OZ
6 options
Luv Inc Heart Bullet
Available
VALENTINE BABYDOLL
16 options
Two Piece Zipper Heart Set
2 options
Womanizer Rose
2 options
WE VIBE VERGE 2
Available
WE VIBE CHORUS
5 options
Frequently asked questions
What is a good Valentine's Day gift for a boyfriend?
A vibrating cock ring you both feel, such as the We-Vibe Verge 2, or a stroker like the Arcwave Ghost or Tenga Flip Orb. Pair it with a sex game so the gift becomes the evening.
What is a romantic Valentine's Day gift for a husband?
A couples toy — We-Vibe Sync or Chorus — plus a massage candle and a night planned around them. If he is new to toys, the Maia Love Box starter kit is the low-pressure option.
What is the best Valentine's gift for a girlfriend or wife?
Valentine's lingerie she can wear that night (the Oh La La Cherie Valentine Babydoll is our bestseller), or a rose-shaped clitoral suction toy such as the Womanizer Rose. Robes and babydolls are safest if you do not know her size.
What is Valentine's lingerie?
Lingerie in Valentine's colors and details — red, pink, black lace, satin, hearts and bows. Babydolls, teddies, bra and panty sets and robes all count; babydolls and robes are the easiest to size.
When should I order a Valentine's Day gift?
Standard shipping takes 5–7 business days, so order by the first days of February, or choose express (2–3 business days) or overnight. Our nine boutiques in South Carolina and Michigan stock everything for same-day pickup.
Can we shop for Valentine's gifts together in store?
Yes. Badd Kitty boutiques are built for couples to browse together, with staff who answer questions without judgment and private consultations on request.